Good morning. Please help! My two year old son is driving us all to the edge and I feel like we are now in a cycle and I can't get out of it. I also have a 4.5 yr DD who is at school. Partly I think it is sibling rivalry, partly his age...but he is causing so much tension in our house and we feel like we just aren't moving forward. Mainly he will shout and now has moved on to screaming, in fact having a mental breakdown for example because he said he didn't want me to carry him down the stairs but then when I get to the bottom of the stairs he changes his mind. He is constantly putting us in a no win situation so that the end result is him having a meltdown. I can't offer him choices to try to exercise his independence as this blows his brain and will give him another reason to shout, scream and hit, because he wants neither, no he wants both, etc etc. What I read is to be patient....but he is pushing my buttons so often that I can't be patient with him and I find it so hard to remain calm and not shout back as he is putting me and my husband under so much stress. How can such a little thing be so destructive? What can I do to manage this situation?
Thank you so much for any words of wisdom! x
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2y2mo DS driving us round the bend
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LM1234 · 06/02/2013 10:00
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