Hi I have 6 month old boy and girl twins and a 3 year old ds. I'm lucky because my mil has been staying with us since twins were born to help out as dh works long hours.
Till now both babies wake 2 or 3 times a night and during the day they tend to have short naps of about 20 mins. We rock/cuddle them to sleep each time. I want to know how I can get them to have longer naps and learn to go to sleep by themselves. My 3 year-old was always a pain with regard to sleeping. He has only just started sleeping theough the night reliably and this by means of stickers and bribes. i don't want to go through the same with the twins, but I don't know how to get them to change their sleep patterns as I never had any success with ds1.
I am not adverse to controlled crying. In fact I just tried it with them this afternoon. Ds went to sleep quite quickly but was woken by dd's screams after about 20 mins. She screamed for 54 mins in total, with me going back to her every few mins to calm her down. Then she slept for... you guessed it 20 mins! Hardly worth all that heartache. If I'm going to do things the hard way I'd like to see results, not torture my babies for nothing. So, any advice?
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getting 6 month old twins to nap / sleep through the night
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joannita · 31/01/2013 16:08
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