DS1 is 2.4 and DS2 was born two weeks ago. For the past week DS1 behaviour has been awful. He has gone from being a sweet, cute toddler (although stubborn and sometimes naughty) to an absolute nightmare. The arrival of DS2 has coincided with Christmas holidays (so a break in his usual routine of going to nursery) plus he and DH caught a nasty virus over Christmas so he was ill and his sleep was very broken.
We had planned for me to spend quality time with DS1 once the newborn arrived but this was scuppered by his illness as I tried to keep my distance to try and prevent baby from catching it.
He is throwing his toys in frustration or sometimes in a deliberate attempt to provoke us, he is spitting, he is hitting us if we tell him off. He refuses to do anything he is told and stomps off into his bedroom in a sulk. He is shouting 'no' all the time and snatching toys off us saying 'mine'. We are using the naughty corner and time out in his bedroom which is what we have done in the past but to no avail. Tried explaining to him how we love him, tried ignoring bad behaviour, tried shouting at him (when he does something dangerous like throw a wooden brick close to DS2).
DH is quite an impatient person and is at the end of his tether. I seem to always suffer quite badly with baby blues so am currently in the throes of that. Everyone is tired and frustrated. We live abroad so have no family to help and no chance of respite. Does anyone have any advice or tips on what we can do or what tactics we should try please? Thank you!
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Dealing with awful behaviour in toddler following new baby
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NichyNoo · 30/12/2012 19:24
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