My DS is 15 months old, and my only real contact with older toddlers/children is through playgroup. I see the good and bad side of the children I have met here and nothing they do actually makes me bristle.
My niece, however, does. My brother has been over from the other side of the pond and is having his daughter for the duration. This means we have seen said neice 3 times in the last week, and I have to say I find her behaviour horrible.
Examples:
- Snatches all my DS's toys off him and piles them up in a corner, holding him off them shouting at him that they are all hers. He sits quietly looking at a book, and that will be taken away. Ignores bein told that that is not a nice thing to do and carries on, refusing to give anything back or allow him to play with any of his own toys.
- Pushes him over (example: went to a petting farm and he was looking at one of the lizards and next minute he is on the floor crying and she is standing exactly where he was after shoving him)
- We go and visit the place where they are staying and anything he touches she's shouting its hers and takes it all away from him; keeps taking his comfort blanket off him saying its hers, and then the final nail in the coffin, he had crawled into the room where she was sleeping and I found her dragging him out by his leg.
She has appears to have speech delay - at nearly 4 some words are understandable but most is just gibberish. She also appears to be totally away with the faries, but I am not convinced this does not just come out when she is being told to do something she doesn't like.
Putting it like this makes it sound as though these things happen intermittently, but it is almost constant, the pushing, the shouting, the taking things. I think I would be horrified if my son turned out like this. Is this behaviour just normal and I need to get with the flow, or is there something else?
Please help! I will see her again before my brother flies back and I just want to shut her in a cupboard!