Ds and me are both fairly introvert so it's no surprise that ds1 who is 3 and 3 months is very shy sometimes and doesn't tend to interact easily with other kids. He is great when he's out with us, and will say a big thankyou to waiters when we go to a restaurant etc, although we often have tantrums before we go anywhere - he never wants to go out to the duck pond, toddler group, play areas etc but usually enjoys it when we get there.
I sometimes worry that he will be less happy through life being quiet and shy, but want to give him loads of love for what he is, rather than trying to make him someone he's not. Having said that dh and me do take him out a lot and give him lots of chances to interact.
The one big thing that worries me is that he won't speak most of the time at nursery - he just whispers when prompted, and tends to play on his own all the time. I have considered moving him to a childminder thinking that the environment will suit him more, but perhaps the move will unsettle him. He seems happy with his key worker and other carers at nursery and will easily go to them for a cuddle and tickle when he gets there, but often cries when I am taking him in until he gets that cuddle from them.
Has anyone else ever had this problem? Not sure how much I should be worried.
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3 year old ds will only whisper when at nursery
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EHmum · 09/04/2006 14:05
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