My DS has just turned one and has been with the same childminder full time since he was five months. He is very settled and happy there and gets on with the two other children well. Unfortunately one of the children is leaving and the third is only there two days a week. This means a lot less interaction for my DS. He is very keen on older children and completely unafraid or intimidated by adults but seems to want to keep his distance from children his own age. I'm obviously not expecting him to be engaging with them or anything but over the weekend he walked off into a corner to be away from a group his own age while they were all quite happy together.
I wonder whether it might be good for him to start at a nursery some time in the nearish future. To be with other children and just generally to have some more dynamic activity. He is a big explorer and has been walking and talking (a bit!) for a while now so maybe it would be good for him to have more stimulation?
I really don't want to leave my childminder though as I adore her. Would it be too uprooting and confusing for him if he did a few half days (with her taking him) or something like that? I'm also really nervous about the settling in thing. I didn't have a whisper of a problem when he started with the childminder but could be different now.
I realise this sounds like I am pointlessly causing problems for myself and imagine lots of people might say just stick with what's already working! But my mother has made me question my arrangement and I wonder if she might have a point.
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kawaii123 · 26/11/2012 11:37
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