My beautiful DD is 4 months old and is a terrible daytime napper...even as a tiny newborn she would be awake all day until she passed out with exhaustion.
Things have got a little better since the very early weeks but she will still only sleep for a max of 20mins in the cot or pram (morning nap only...can't get her to have a nap in cot/pram more than once a day). I've been getting around it in the past few weeks because she'll sleep for 2-3 hours in the sling. However, my back is really beginning to suffer now...I can't keep taking her out for walks of 2-3 hours in the sling every day, she's getting too heavy for me...and it's getting really cold!
I am desperate to tackle her issue with napping in the cot but she's not having any of it. Today I tried for 50mins to get her to have a morning nap...she eventually gave up but woke less than 20mins later. For her late afternoon nap I tried for an hour and she didn't even close her eyes, she just cried and cried (I stayed with her...patting and stroking and resting my hand on her). Eventually I gave up cos it was getting too close to her actual bedtime. I don't think it's overtiredness cos she had a good 2.5 hours sleep in the sling at lunchtime and it's definitely not because she's not tired enough. And the irony is that when I put her down to bed in the evening she goes with minimal fuss and is asleep within a few mins. I don't understand it...the only difference at bedtime is that I give her a bath before putting down. Everything else I do the same as bedtime.
People always comment that she's extremely alert and interested in everything going on around her. And it's true, if there's something to look at she stares at it for ages absolutely fascinated. In her bedroom I've tried to black it out as much as I possibly can but in the day there always a very small crack of light that creeps in making some animals on her cot bumper just about visible. So when I put her down in the cot, she'll be tired and ready for sleep but then she'll stare at these animals for AGES...turning her head over and over again to look at every single one of them repeatedly and getting increasingly animated. So then I think perhaps she's getting overstimulated and that's stopping her sleeping...but how do you stop a baby that is stimulated by every little thing going on around her getting overstimulated??? I somehow need to block out the world for her so she can get some rest but I can't. It's driving me insane.
Can anyone suggest anything that I could try? Or are there any really good books you've read on naptime problems (night time sleep isn't an issue at all...she's a great sleeper at night) that might help.
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What do I have to do to get my 4mo to nap in the day? Please help!
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LKirk · 22/11/2012 21:09
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