Not so sure if i'm just expecting far too much from my DD (5 yo in Feb)
she isn't the naughtiest child, but when talking to her about her actions and behaviour, she will either not listen or just not care. She had seemed to be settling into school and liking our new area, since moving cities and starting reception. But more recently, no matter what i say to her, its as though she can walk all over me. I've brought in 'Happy Family Rules' which whilst we were making the rules, she broke 2 of them! But then said to us 'im SO sorry' very insincerely. she went on the naughty step but its just like nothing to her. as soon as she got off she was off doing what she wanted without actually acknowledging that she had done anything wrong. Then she goes to her dads fortnightly and gets away with everything and comes back even worse!
Today in the car, she dropped her bracelet on the floor and asked if i could get it. i said to her 'i will get it when the car has stopped because it is dangerous to take my seatbelt off' she replied 'i want my bracelet' i then said 'would u rather mummy gets hurt just so you can get your bracelet back?' to which she replied Yes.
She must know what she has said is wrong?
Ive spoken to her and explained how what she said is not very nice.
But its like nothing has happened!!! she says sorry and thinks its ok, just as long as she says sorry.
Am I being totally ridiculous? Just seems like she doesn't care about behaving or hurting someones feelings etc :(
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iloveweetos · 15/11/2012 17:36
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