Hi, I have a DD who will be two next month. Whenever we are in a playgroup situation, or any situation with her peers, she will cry as soon as a toy is snatched from her by another child and come and find me. Does anyone have any tips as to how to respond to her? I don't want her particularly to snatch it back, as we're trying to teach her to share at the moment, (which she's doing very nicely) but likewise, I want her to "stand up for herself". Worried I'm sending her mixed messages. If I say, ask nicely for it back again, DD runs up and says please and 9 times out of 10, the child takes no notice. I don't want her to feel like she's done anything wrong, but she's the one who has to make do with finding another toy. Also, I don't want her to think crying to Mummy is the way to resolve her problems. But at the same time, she's only two!!! Am I being too hard on her???!
Any suggestions gladly received!
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2 year old who cries every time toy is taken from her
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LJJ · 22/03/2006 19:01
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