Today We took ds's friend (well his girlfriend, according to him) for an outing, our first time with this friend. Now I know my ds is advanced for 6 (everyone tells me so), but I was shocked to find that she
a) is unable to fasten a car seatbelt herself (her mum put her in my car as we went, she couldn't fasten it herself for the return journey)
b) Doesn't know when her birthday is, beyond being able to say "It's a long time to my birthday"
c ) can't identify the months of the year, and doesn't know it is February now.
Also can't understand why I corrected the phrase " I don't want no chips", altho' I recognise this may be acceptable language at her house.
My son has fastened his own seatbelt since just after his 5th birthday, has a complete grasp of the calendar, and has been able to tell people his birthday date since 3 y.o.
He can now tell the time (altho' won't admit it, he's too sly).
Are my expectations too high and the girlfriend is average for 6, or is his friend "a bit behind"
I'm genuinely curious about this one
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Easy · 24/02/2006 17:51
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