Right, this isn't my child but my friend has asked me to ask you lot what you think may help:
Her DD is almost 9, doing well at school etc. But she has major tamtrums - only at home. She bites, kicks, hits, throws ornaments, hurts the dog etc. Afterwards it's like she's on a high rather than being worn out by it. She hurts her mum who just takes it, she's scared of restraining her in case she hurts her, she's locked her in her room and she pulls the wallpaper off the walls. Her dad isn't much help, he can't stand the tamtrums and is in the verge of walking. He reacts (IMO) in the wrong way, there are holes in many doors from his reaction to the tantrums. He says he does love his DD but can't cope with her behaviour anymore. Her mum says that she's scared to tell him when DD has had a tantrum in case he leaves, and DD knows this. Mum says "I'm going to have to tell your dad", daughter says "No you won't". They are both at breaking point and need help. They saw a child psychologist before who only suggested star charts, this worked for all of 3 days before DD vandalised the charts and refuses to do them anymore. They're trying omega 3 but DD doesn't like it and has hidden it!
Any ideas anyone? Please
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Help needed with 9 year old girl! Please!
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Pfer · 20/02/2006 10:20
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