Adam was 2 in January and I am becoming more and more worried about his behaviour.
He seems to become really upset when things are not in order.. for example, tonight one of his toys was on the 'wrong shelf' and it was as if it was the end of the world. We have examples like this every day, when crayons have not gone in the right box, when a toy animal has been left out of a bag, when his nursery bag is not on the coat hanger, when a spoon has not gone into the washing machine, when mummy or daddy hasn't taken their plate into the kitchen...
He has been biting at nursery for ages, at least a year. The nursery have even said they have never had a child bite as long as Adam does. We use time out and make it very clear biting is not acceptable and he always says sorry. The nursery have been good about it, but a few times they have said the biting has been unprovoked... but I am now starting to see a link with his strange behaviour. The other week he bit a boy and the nursery staff said it was for no reason. When I spoke to another member of staff she said it was because the little boy had sat in one of the babies chair. I wonder if in Adam's mind this upset him because he felt it was wrong? Also, he bit a little girl who keeps running from the baby section to the toddler section. He has bitten children at the lunch table (again apparently for no reason) but at home he gets upset if we dont put our cups on the mat so maybe although it seemed like there was no reason, something was 'wrong' in Adam's mind.
At first we laughed it off.. afterall shouldn't I be pleased to have a tidy child???.. but now I am worried it is a symptom of some illness.
Adam seems a perfectly normal 2 year old in every other way. He plays well with children (when not biting!) and seems quite bright (mastered shape sorters etc at 18mths) His language skills are very good (4 and 5 word sentances). Yes he sometimes hits and has tantrums, but not that often and he is a very affectionate boy.
Adam is my first child so I have nothing to compare too. Is this normal behavior for a toddler... do other children like such control and order in their lives?
Thank you for any help!
Gemma
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Is there something wrong with my 2 year old?
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Gemma77 · 15/02/2006 20:23
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