My 4 year old DS1 is so aggressive. He is very vocal and bossy, always telling people what to do. This I can deal with but he is so rude to everyone - especially other children, he calls them yeuch and is always telling me that he doesn't like such and such.
We have a disruptive few years and he hasn't had any settled playmates that he has known since year dot. As such I think that he is finding the social side of school confusing. Now we are settled and he is in a great school.
He goes on about one boy all the time but I am not sure that they are even friends. I have invited him over for a playdate next week to try and help DS1's social life.
But I am very confused. How do I help him settle down? Do I make a big deal of his behaviour, do I ignore it? Have tried both, admittedly not consistencly.
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Verbally aggressive 4 year old
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Kaz33 · 17/11/2005 19:07
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