I am a little - (actually a lot, I am hardly sleeping) -worried about my dd. I am not sure if the problem is me or her , iyswim.
Backgroud - due to a major bereavement suffered quite severe pnd after dd2 born. Spent all of dd2 (now 2 yrs old) babyhood worried about her, especially about autism. Got treatment from doctor in the form of happypills and also got dd2 seen by a dev pediatrician (twice). Stopped worrying started enjoying dd2 - came off pills about two months ago - worries about dd2 resurfacing. Have decided to see my doc to discuss my state of mind but wonder if I could just run something past mumsnetters.
My dd2 is very social , doing well at nursery, points, and has good language - speaks in sentences (short ones) understands everything I say to her . Nursery are pleased with her progress, think she is very articulate social and spot on with her development. Friends and dh think she is fine too. As did the pediatrician.
But - she has always had this thing where she is not too keen on looking at me when she is sitting on my lap and I am trying to engage her. Will interact fine when she is a little distance away but not keen on eye contact when close too. Having said that she will look at me if I am singing a song (and try to join in ) or if I make a funny face .
Apart from that her eye contact seems fine - although she doesn't always look at me when she is pointing at something - though she may say - look at that or whazzat? DD1 was very different - seemed to hang on my very word and is still a very intense little girl.
Is this anything to worry about ? Has anyone come across this before? I hope I don't sound too neurotic ......... I seem to be putting dd2 under a microscope and it is so wearing for me and I am sure for her.
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toocoolforschool · 16/11/2005 00:03
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