DS1 is 27 months, and has been at home with me for the last 5 months as I am on maternity leave with DS2. He was at a childminders before my leave started which he loved, and he was very social and loved company.
In the last month he has become totally clingy, to the point of crying when I suggest we go to see his grandparents (who he adores), my best friend (who is great with him), etc. He just say " No, stay at home with mummy". If we do go anyway he just clings to me and wont leave my side. When visitors come he clams up and when they leave he is full of chat about them. Things have got much worse after an unfortunate incident in a soft play group last week when another child hurt him, which has really deeply upset him. He is now totally ill at ease anywhere where there are other children
I left him with the childminder for a day last week and he cried before we left, when we got there, and when I left. He was okay after a while but on the quiet side she said. Am now totally dreading going back to work (in Nov) and leaving him with the childminder every day. I just dont think I could cope if he is going to be so upset.
Has anyone else a toddler of similar age who is like this? He never had separation anxiety when he was younger, in fact he would have gone anywhere with anyone. Is it because he has spent so much time at home with me over the summer, or is this a phase they go through at this age? Can I do anything to help him?
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Swirl · 21/09/2005 20:19
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