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Antenatal tests

Just need a little bit of support...........

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Hanzym · 08/07/2014 09:04

In January this I had to deliver my 19w old baby as it had severe chromosome abnormalities, we done lots of testing and it's come back that my husband is a carrier for an inverted chromosome 11, it was a very traumatic time and we as a couple struggled, anyway we fell pregnant again very easily and had the cvs done a couple of weeks ago and they have come back the same Sad, I am booked in for a surgical termination on Saturday, I'm just really struggling to continue! I'm back at work this week as I can't afford to take too much time off and will have a week off after the termination but I'm really struggling to get out of bed, on top of it I am still pregnant! I still feel sick if I don't eat yet I'm really struggling to face food! I don't know why I'm writing on here, I guess I just needed some hand holding xx

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Jumpingjuly · 08/07/2014 09:12

Oh Hanzym I am sending you lots of hugs and support. I went through similar losing a baby at 23 weeks to chromosome abnomality followed by another at 18 weeks (different problem) . If there is any light at the end of the tunnel my third pregnancy although still not straightforward resulted in my perfect DD so there is always hope. Please look after yourself and take any help or support offered.

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LuckyAugust · 08/07/2014 09:26

Hanzym I am so sorry to read this. Sending big hugs xxxxxx

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Tranquilitybaby · 11/07/2014 01:10

Sorry to hear you're going through another heartbreaking loss x love to you x

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lostlove · 12/07/2014 00:25

Hanzym, I am very sorry to read this. It is so unfair that things have turned out this way.

Thinking of you and your husband today.

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Pizdets · 13/07/2014 17:05

Hanzym really sorry to hear this, hope yesterday was as bearable as possible. Have you contacted ARC (ante-natal results and choices)? They are great for support for this Lind of thing and I found the forum great for support too. Thinking of you.

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