Hi I have never posted a thread but really need some helpful opinions on my undecided decision.
I have 2 sons age 10&8 years and I am pregnant with a child.
My older sons have a good relationship with their dad.
The father of the 3rd child is now my ex. From a 2 year relationship. He has been very abusive to me for a year of that relationship, name calling, putting me down, playing mind games, blaming me for his actions etc the list goes on. To the point I couldn't take anymore and finished the relationship. At this time I was struggling to walk away and was proscribed anti depressants, they made me sick, pill failed, I'm now sat here 11+6 weeks pregnant.
I know in my head the right thing to do for myself and my sons is to have an abortion and get away from this man and back to my happy independent life that I had before, but something is just making me so unsure.
I had surgical procedure booked last week, I got so worked up I didn't go, I have re booked and soonest is next week but everyday I'm so torn.
Both myself and my ex have known I am pregnant for 6 weeks and the whole 6 weeks he has still been a selfish drinking unsupportive specimen of a man. He has no children and is desperate for me to keep the child.
I however feel if I keep this child I will be a single parent to 3, I will struggle, and have a life of his mental abuse and missary.
Please help with opinions. I don't need any insults please I'm finding things hard enough as it is.
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monson · 17/06/2014 12:06
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