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Feeling so low after 20 week tfmr

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Worried9months · 07/06/2014 10:30

If any of you have read my previous posts I had a late medical termination on tue after a
Spina bifida diagnosis

I'm feeling really low right now and feeling like I didn't spend enough time with my baby when he was born.

Not sure how to get over these
Feelings but trying so hard for the sake of dc1

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Stargirl7 · 07/06/2014 10:47

So sorry worried. There are no words that can express how awful you must feel. Have you thought about a little memory box for them? Or even planting a lovely tree/rose bush? X

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Teaandtoast1 · 07/06/2014 11:54

Hi worried. I'm so sorry you are feeling like this. Please be kind to yourself, you and your body have been through so much. It's still very early days. I felt a range of emotions and still do, you did the best thing for you and your family and that's all that matters xxxx

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FeelingPositive1 · 29/06/2014 17:03

Have you tried the ARC forum? It helped me a lot after my tfmr. Counselling & talking to others who'd been through it helped me. Journaling & writing to your baby can help. Take each day at a time, it does get easier. Big hug xxx

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