Four days ago my life turned upside down. Harmony test for our long-awaited IVF baby indicates Trisomy 21, CVS result due tomorrow but Prof Nikoaedes is pretty sure the diagnosis will be confirmed.
I am living in purgatory. We decided to terminate. My hospital has no listings in the next week so they recommended I do it via Mary Stopes or BPAS. I am booked in a BPAS clinic for Monday, but a friend strongly suggested that i should look for a private gynecologist in Harley street used to dealing with high risk pregnancies and older mothers rather than go to a walk in clinic where most terminations are done for social rather than medical reasons.
Now I am even more worried. Obviously, doctors working in those clinics are also incredibly professional given the sheer volume of abortions they perform, but is their level of expertise and technique likely to be the same as that of a gynecologist in a leading hospital? Would you go to Mary Stopes or BPAS if you had fertility issues and were planning to TTC again after the termination, and were concerned that less than impeccable technique could jeopardize any further chances of pregnancy?
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Termination for medical reasons - where?
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Umnitsa · 11/04/2014 01:03
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