Title says it all really. dd1 is 3, dd2 is 15 months and i am 5 weeks pg.
Cannot believe we have been so stupid. The rhythm method is probably less likely to work when you cant remember what month it is most of the time I guess!
We are working abroad for my family company which we have invested a lot in and which we dont want to give up (especially if we have three kids to fulfil our dreams for our kids - we'll need even more cash). I also learnt through dd2 that I am rubbish at being a sahm and it puts a massive strain on my relationship with dh.
Life is good at the moment, hectic and rushed but we have a plan, the girls are growing up. I feel like I have my body back, space to go out with friends and space to start being me again on the horizon.
We do have the means to have a third kid though and whilst I have no moral objections to abortion (we have one booked in the UK for when we come back at the end of June as that was the original plan where we are is hard to get an abortion) I'm not sure I can do it.
Im not sure basically if the reprecussions from disrupting our life and adding more pressure to it or the reprecussions from an abortion will be worse.
I also feel I dont want to talk to anyone other than dh in real life.
How do i make this decision??!
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pommedechocolat · 10/06/2013 08:07
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