Hi not sure where to start - my bf has 2 DC and has had 3 losses quite close together, just getting over mc at 6 weeks and then fell pregnant again quite quickly!
She was Worried, scared but excited all at once!
After loads of tests and waiting she reached 12 weeks where the scan showed the baby's legs in an awkward position and now concerns about the legs not moving and also it progressing into a worse situation!
No tests can tell me if will go full term, if baby will be disabled just legs or if its serious nerve damage and so baby life will go down hill and end up not having any function???? So confused and don't have anyone in RL to relate to this issue!
Is she being selfish in regards to other dc and how they will cope? Should She be grateful for Dc,and terminate? Times passing so quickly and shes trying not to deal with it, but its happening???
DH is totally supportive and will respect whatever She decide!
I'm the only person that knows and I'm struggling with info as never dealt with a situation as serious and heart breaking as this!
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being selfish for all the wrong reasons? Or should terminate?
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Countmyblessings · 30/10/2012 13:16
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