I found out I was expecting a few weeks ago. The facts are I fell pregnant, unplanned while on the pill. I am 10 weeks. My 'boyfriend' doesnt want any children but will support whatever I decide, however we have agreed we cannot live together (amazing how peoples reactions to pregnancy show their true colours) and we have therefore split. I have previously bought up my daughter on my own so that doesnt scare me. The risks, I am 41 so at higher risk of abnormalities, I have had several significant operations to my stomach to repair previous childbirth complications and a subsequent blood tranfusion means I have the rare anti-kell antibody, detected at my antenatal screening. If the baby were affected I may need medical intervention, baby could need a transfusion early and is likely to be induced prematurely and may be stillborn. My doctor has referred me to a specialist but the percentage risks are unlikely to be determined before 14/15 weeks.
I dont feel strong enough to go through this and have been considering my options.
I had a scan this morning and baby is small for my dates.
The odds appear to be stacked heavily against the pregnancy continuing successfully and to me termination seems to be the most sensible option in my case - despite this and even with all the information available, I feel so bad for even considering it!
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katesmummy · 11/02/2011 18:42
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