Hi, this is my first post have just joined! Sorry it's such a long one I'm so very grateful to anyone who actually reads it...
Our gp has prescribed fluoxetine for pnd (and am also on the list for talking therapy) I have had the medication for a week now and can't decide if I should take them or not after researching them online (side effects, how they work and that I don't think they actually solve anything although short term they would make it easier to cope until talking therapy) I really don't like the idea of them (no offence to others who take them because I do understand what a brilliant help they are its just my personal hang ups)
My partner started out being suppotive and has now lost patience, can't deal with me having pnd, criticises every effort I make its always 'too late' or 'not enough' for example he will say he'll get up, do the morning routine etc. I am upstairs while lo is crying, I come down to comfort him after allowing plenty of time for oh to respond to him. I walk in and get 'I was just about to pick him up' 'I was just doing etc etc' and worst of all 'I knew it, every time you f***g arrive' well, yes I arrive because he doesn't cope and I can hear my baby crying.
I don't want to (and will not) speak to anyone else about the pnd (friends/family) I have spoken to our gp and health visitor though and joined a support group (oh came too) but oh's impatience and own issues are making this a whole lot worse to deal with. There is no point him offering 'help' if it just turns into blame and arguments every time
Thanks again to anyone who managed to read all that!
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unsure about medication and oh making the situation worse:-(
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friendswithmymonster · 27/07/2014 08:15
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