Hello.
My boy is 14months and from 3 weeks old has suffered from reflux. Spent first 6months in and out of hospital. Anyway to cut a long story short. I'm really struggling to enjoy motherhood. Somedays I just wish if never had him. I feel so guilty for saying this out loud. A lot of the time I feel really nervous like something is wrong.
I have a great job and husband but I'm just not happy. I'm not even sure if I deserve my job anymore, I'm trying to study for exams but just can't concentrate.
All my friends enjoy motherhood so much and I feel like I'm just putting on this fake smile just to fit in!
Yesterday was such a bad day spent most of the day crying. Today I feel a bit better just feel kinda numb. I feel so guilty for thinking all these things about my boy like do I even love him. I dread spending alone time with him.
I have had days where we have had fun like going to the zoo but most days I dread. I don't even think he likes me that much coz all he does is cry infront of me where everyone else says he is brilliant for them!
I know motherhood is hard but really is it this hard?! I'm just so tired fed up and just want to run away. I have nightmares most nights about my boy going missing or taken away from me.
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14months of what seem like hell
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Hmac16 · 27/03/2014 15:15
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