I had postnatal depression after the birth of my daughter ten years ago I let her down in so many ways including not bonding with her. I have to live with the guilt of that. I now have a two month old son I love him with all my being I am terrified something bad will happen to him and can not be apart from him in case it does.
MIL is guilt tripping me over the fact I won't take him to her house as she smokes these nasty knock off cigarettes and the house stinks.
We're on JSA while husband desperately search's for a job and puts up with my various mental health issues.
Not one member of my family has met my baby, my mum apparently can't afford to visit yet she is away every weekend and this Saturday will be a twenty minute drive from us for the world egg throwing championships. That really really hurts.
We've found out today our benefits are being stopped for a month due to DH being late to an a4e appointment because he was dealing with me having a massive panic attack.
I really want to go and punish myself for fucking up everything I'm going to be letting my baby down again. If I wasn't alone with him right now I would've done it by now but he's awake so I'm with him but he'd be better off without me as evidenced by the fact even my own family don't want anything to do with me.
I've fucked up again and I don't know how to fix it, I won't eat so he can but when we run out of electric and nappies I don't know what I will do. I wish I could fix myself for him but I will always be letting him down and he deserves so much more.
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Its happened again, I'm going to let my baby down again.
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PeachActiviaMinge · 28/06/2013 14:46
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