We have a nanny share for DS2, 2 years. We share with another family with a toddler of the same age. I've had various gripes/issues with the nanny and the share, most of which I've let go but the latest problem is driving me mad. The share used to be based 3 days at our house, 2 days at the other family's but, as the other family are having building works to their house, the share is now based at our house 5 days. I'm on maternity leave with DS2, 3 months, and finding it difficult to deal with the constant noise and mess of having 2 toddlers at our house. The nanny is generally good but very messy and I find I am constantly cleaning up after her. In addition, I think it's a bit unfair that we're picking up the cost of all food, milk, wipes, nappies etc. The other family send across 2 meals a week and pay for the kitty which is around £12 per week so although they are doing something it's far from an even split. Anyway, the nanny has always seemed to the favour the other child/family more than us. The latest example of this is that I've noticed she always changes the other toddler's nappy just before hometime but not DS's And no, it's not because the other child has had a poo. I have watched her do it 2 days in a row then finally said today, can you please change DS's nappy too, which she then did. They are our friggin nappies as well!! Today she picked up the other child and said, oh you have had a big wee, though how she knew that without checking I don't know. She didn't check DS's nappy at the same time. My mum was staying last week and also picked up on this. AIBU to be pissed off and should I say something to her?
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Gangle · 07/07/2010 21:29
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