to not log in to mumsnet these days never got serious advice just loads of bitching

[justsue]

Hi all I logged into this site last year to discuss my son, (who now is settled with my first darling grandchild, she is lovely). Then came back bout my "father" but cannot get people to understand what is going on. I watch u all bitching about stupid stuff and would love to say " ugh hello there is other things going on in the world than MY CHILD IS NOT TALKING TO ANOTHER CHILD AND I WANT TO BEAT HER MOTHER. Get a grip people. I dont give a shit if your child hates billy across the road and he has not been invited to the party , get over it , I dont give a flying fish if your nannie does not live up to your standards, do it yourself for gods sake, what I do do give a shit about is how fucking malicious you lot are and how we "newbies" dare not post again for advice

[GypsyMoth]

but you arent a newbie??

[TonariNoTotoro]

[VirtualPA]

and now the 'newbies' will be too scared to defend you and the seasoned MNetters will rip you apart........

[bibbitybobbityhat]

Eh?

[belledechocolatefluffybunny]

I'm sorry but what makes everyone else's problems less important then yours?

[unltd]

yawn

you have had this rant before

[justsue]

no im not your right and no TonariTotor IM NOT A FUCKING TROLL EITHER

[GypsyMoth]

well theres always netmums....

op i dont understand why you seem to think people should post as YOU want them to??

[justsue]

mmm when unltd

[bibbitybobbityhat]

Perhaps you should sleep on it and post again when not quite so wound up?

[TonariNoTotoro]

MN has discussions on everything from how to peg out your laundry, to etiquette for lunch, to many many political discussions, to legal issues, employment issues, what cake recipe to use, what pushchair to buy, etc etc etc

The massively trivial mixed in with the deadly serious.

Woman, get a grip. If you want to ask serious quesions, and seek advice, ask and they shall come.

[Joolyjoolyjoo]

I don't understand why you are so angry . Do you have a thread that you feel is being ignored because people are posting about more trivial things, is that it?

Sometimes people just come onto MN for a bit of light relief. I can't see how more lighthearted threads are in some way detracting from what you want to say

[SimonCowellIsSatan]

I hope you also give a shit that I came out tonight and admitted I fancied Nick Clegg. We all have issues!

[Mongolia]

Everyone suffers problems differently, I'm here right now, about to loose my house, and with that, perhaps my son. I have lost anything I ever had in the past, and for the looks of it... also the future, I'm not even allowed to reconstruct my life, I have no way, I'm trapped in a hopeless situation. So yes, every time I hear people being bitched about or bitching for menial stuff I feel like saying get a grip. But then, it is not their fault they can't see the positives in their lives. I'm sure there should be someone having it worse than I do thinking the same about my problems.

So... the only thing I could say, is don't take it personally, people ignores you because there are thousands of things going on here, not because you are new, you can not even know who is new in here or not... I have been here for almost as long as this site has been going on and that doesn't give me any extra attention.

[justsue]

perhaps your right bibby but you must admit although not a complete newbie sometimes I would love to rant and rave on here and see other peoples problems and think "OMG LEAD MY LIFE" yes I am being unreasonable but the main reason i logged on here was to rant and rave without being accused of anything. For gods sake all I want is reasonable advice is that to much to ask

[Thediaryofanobody]

You sound rather aggressive yourself.
You should look further than IABU and chat and you will see wonderful, helpful, insightful and educational posts from woman of all walks of life trying to help one another.
Why not try help someone or listen to someone in need of a sympathetic ear instead of contributing to the bitching?

[hobbgoblin]

yeah and, like, some posts don't even make fucking sense and shit. It's really shit here so god knows what I am doing here. What AM I doing here actually? I don't care enough to be here. I'm not mad and I work Full time actually AND care for my 6DC and have no cleaner before you all start judging. Maybe I am mad...do you think I have Narcissistic PD. Shit! Maybe my DP does? Oh fuckit, what do I care? You're all bastards. Ignore me. Don't expecxt replies. Just wanted to get this down on paper. You're not reading this are you anyone? Oh please don't say you are. Well, if you are I don't care because you;re all bitches anyhow. I'm not a Troll it's just my Aunt Fanny comes on here...you all jump up and say troll so quick. See, I told you it was shite. The only reason I'm still here is because I have OCD and have to type messages, even though I DON'T CARE and I hate you all. I don't even acttually care enough to hate you all. Anyway am pissed so ignore me, I'll regret this in the morning.

Night night, I'm leaving Love to all who know me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[thinker]

I fancy Nick Clegg too, he has a little of Colin Firth going on.

[unltd]

I don't recall the exact date
but do remember you on a thread about this before

I don't think mumsnet suits you, it seems to make you very angry

[Shodan]

Gosh. You're really rather cross, aren't you.

If you have that attitude, no-one's going to want to help.

And if you don't care about anyone else's problems, why bother reading/posting? Do something else instead.

[Mongolia]

Are you Sue, hobgobblin? Will miss you if you are...

[toccatanfudge]

well I have had a whole load of shit in the last 8 months or so.......some really serious shit.

But actually some of the things that have got me down the most are the more "trivial" things.

I hate "comparative shitness" with a passion

[thinker]

@ hobgoblin

[hobbgoblin]

Who are you calling Sue? You accuser you! HVDY?

[HairExtensions]

Oh SCIS really? I think I kind of do too

justsue you seem really angry tonight, has something happened? maybe you could avoid emotive topics such as AIBU and Relationships?