I have three children under 5, the youngest is 14 months. I am feeling more and more guilty about the fact that I can't wait until they're all in school and I have some time to myself. I know everyone says you should never wish away these years and they grow up so fast but I can't stop feeling like this and looking forward to when they're children, not babies/toddlers. I do love them to bits and enjoy them and I would never turn back the clock. I suppose it doesn't help that I have very little support from family and my husband works long hours and travels a lot so it really is just constant childcare with no breaks. I've only ever spent two nights away from home since my first was born. He is in school now but we can't afford any nursery care or pre-school until the middle one gets her vouchers. I feel my life is such a tedious routine. I probably sound a bit selfish and admittedly, I am quite lazy. Does anyone else feel like this?
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makeitadouble · 17/03/2010 18:10
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