Especially as she lied and told me it was a birthday party .
She is 13 and is constantly asking me if she can go to these under 18 nights at a local nightclub. I have said No, there will be no nightclubs (underage or otherwise) until she's 16, as there will be older boys (yikes!) there and she will want a boyfriend and want to do things too young etc, etc.
She told me tonights party was a birthday party, even buying a birthday card, the lying little moo! I thought it was strange that DD said she needed money for entry and drinks but assumed the parents of the girl were tightasses! I insisted on dropping her at the door to the club and her friend who was there said 'you know it's not my birthday' when DD gave her the card - busted! When I asked what the party was for her friend said it's for under 18's . I called DD as soon as I left and told her she is in big trouble when she gets in later and am considering terrible punishments now.
But AIBU in not letting her go to any others, there is obviously no alcohol, it's just the nightclubby atmosphere I don't like. Lots of boys much older than her. She's too young! I was not even allowed to loiter round town with my mates until I left school let alone go to discos!! She is not sensible and very easily led so cannot be trusted either. DH is still at work and went apeshit when I told him. AIBU??
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