I have been married to DH for just short of a year, we have been together for 6 years and have 1 DD.
Since we have been together, I have only ever had 1 orgasm...and that was just after we got together and we were drunk students who had fancied each other for a good year or so, so I imagine the chemistry had a part to play.
But that's it! I have always still really enjoyed sex with him, I do, although it never really results in anything for me! So I'm ashamed to say I have always faked it, as when we were first together obviously I didn't want to make him feel bad, and then it had just been too long etc. So after we got married, I tried just not doing anything, not faking it but not actually adressing the problem. he was very confused as to why I suddenly couldn't climax anymore, and this had the opposite effect and he became very insecure and we pretty much just stopped having sex!
So, I shot myself in the foot and just faked it again. And we have sex around 5 nights a week and Dh is back to thinking he is an absolute sex god , have I set myself up now for the rest of my life eh? There is no way I can just tell him after all of this time. I mean, is this normal? i did read somewhere that not many women ever reach orgasm...is that true? Tell me it is, and that I'm not missing out! Hehe. Thankyou all!
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MrsMontague · 18/02/2010 16:22
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