I'm a bit cross about this situation...
I'm currently living abroad with the British Forces and have three very close friends back in the UK.
This year we all celebrate an important birthday so my friends got together and decided all four of us should have a city-break together. They didn't consult me on it, just announced this was going to happen.
Even though the break would only cost them £50 each for the flight, and me £200 I agreed as I really wanted to go.
The biggest problem for me, on the allotted weekend was childcare.My husband works an on-call roster and on the dates my friends have booked he can't get a swap so I asked my mum, who was planning to visit us anyway, if she could time her trip over this particular weekend. She agreed.
However, a few weeks ago, she changed her mind, leaving me with the only option of cancelling the trip. None of my friends here locally can childmind and childcare would cost me a fortune on top of the trip itself, so a no-goer.
DH has tried his best to accommodate this but, despite his efforts, cannot help me in any way.
Frankly I'm not a happy bunny and consider myself the victim of a mother who cannot understand the importance of this trip to me and three friends who, frankly, didn't really consider my situation when planning this trip. I had given them a list of weekends which were better suited to me and wouldn't cause the childcare nightmare, but they pressed on with a date which worked for them.
As for the fact, that this trip would cost me more financially for the flight - I would have to have flown back to the UK and then back out, therefore technically putting at least an extra day on my my travels....
Anyway...
received a text today from one of them asking what I was doing about paying for my share of the already booked hotel? The gist of it was "if its non-refundable are you expecting us three to pay?"
I'm so not happy about this, they're hinting I should throw my cash at a quarter share of a hotel I won't even be staying in.
I don't think I should be expected to pay.
The break's not till April.
So, am I being unreasonable to refuse to pay or are they being unreasonable asking for my "share"?
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mierdo · 18/02/2010 06:11
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