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To be really nervous about my wedding tomorrow?

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I'm getting married tomorrow and am absolutely bricking it. I'm so nervous I haven't even been able to eat all day.

DP thinks it is a bad sign that I am nervous but I absolutely love him to bits and I'm only so nervous because our relationship and the wedding really matter to me?

Surely its normal to be really nervous?
Congratulations Memoo! Glad you had a wonderful day smile
Just a quick update, I really did have the best day ever! When I actually stood there infront of DH saying my vows all my nerves just vanished, its just felt 100% like the right thing to do.

Have been knackered all week though! being 29 weeks pregnant and getting married and always a good combo! and I sent my GD haywire because i ate a huge piece of wedding cake and loads of sugary things grin
Good Luck Memoo - you will be FINE and it will all be fantastic grin Congratulations x
Memoo - So excited for you. Have a lovely day. The weather looks beautiful. Smile, breathe, slow down, and think to yourself: I am at the most wonderful party in whole the world, all to celebrate how much someone loves me! Personally, I think that's the best party theme ever!

Don't forget to come back on to MN to update us later. I mean, you won't be doing anything else will you? wink
Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sat 04-Jul-09 07:56:47
Good luck memoo, have a fab day!!

This thread has made me come over all funny. I get married 3 weeks today and nerves hadn't even come into it, but now reading this and seeing how you were feeling the night before has got my heart thumping. I can just imagine it and I think I'm going to be a nervous wreck now!
qually, what a lovely post!

keep your fingers crossed for me today ]smile]
Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sat 04-Jul-09 03:07:11
I was DREADING my wedding, so terrified, just wanted it to be over and done with and out the way. It felt like some horrifying cross between a major exam and an operation and at some very basic level I was quite, quite sure it couldn't actually come to pass. (Should add that my dad is on wife number 4 and mum never remarried, though I had a stepfather - but that also broke down. I had ishoos.)

About halfway up the aisle, hand in hand with dh (we went in together, snarling from nerves tbh) I realised I wasn't scared. At some point early in the reception I suddenly realised it was genuinely the best day of my life - all the people we most loved, all having a lovely party to celebrate DH and I being nuts about one another. It was very, very special.

Take a few moments together, just to enjoy the day. You'll remember those moments, and if you think dc's infancy goes fast...!

We've been married 4 years now. Life is fab. Scaredness means nothing except you know this is a big/final commitment.

Congrats, and enjoy your day!
Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sat 04-Jul-09 02:47:12
I've never been married but I guess nerves are normal, 2 of my old school friends are also getting married on 4th July.

Good Luck for the wedding and I hope you have a very happy future together
Add message | Report | Contact poster By Fri 03-Jul-09 21:55:16
Congratulations!! It is completely normal to be bricking it.

Have a wonderful day and take time to enjoy it, as it whizzing past so quickly.
Of course it's normal to be nervous before a big event.
Have the most wonderful day and just remember to keep breathing.

I didn't get time to get nervous before my wedding as we were moving house that morning BUT I did feel really really anxious in the middle of the night AFTER the ceremony. Perhaps it was nerves or too much champers. ANyway 18 months on I'm happier than ever.

Have a wonderful wonderful day and remember it's not the wedding it's the marriage thats the important thing.

PS : Remember to keep breathing.......
BIG hugs.
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