This is a bit of an awkward one, and I'm back and forth in my own head with what to do and how I want things to be. I'm due to give birth to our first child in the summer, my DH and I live quite a distance from both of our parents, in fact at the other end of the country. A good two to three hour train ride away.
My DH thinks it would be a good idea (and nice for his mum) if MIL came to stay with us. He wants to give her a ring when I basically go into labour and she'll make her way to our house. His thinking is that she'll be able to help out around the house, do little jobs etc. The thing is our place is not particularly big, she'd have to sleep in the dining room or on one of the sofas. I just don't know if I'm going to want all this messing about. I have an awful sinking feeling that my DH and my MIL will take over too. I feel like I just want a bit of space and to get to know my new child on my own without someone else waiting in line to cop a hold!
I've suggested that she stay in a B&B locally, just so we're not all under everyones feet-but DH seems to think that that's pretty mean and we can't expect her to do that. Hmmmpf.
Will I be glad of the extra pair of hands or will I be tearing my hair out wishing everyone (MIL) would just bugger off???
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To not really want my MIL to stay with us when I give birth?
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cazinski · 21/04/2009 12:18
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