I ordered some stuff on DH's next account and agreed to pay the bill. Which I mainly have been, but due to the fact that he rarely contributes towards the upbringing of his child, or the house he lives in, I am often a bit skint. Anyway we now owe £90 to Next.
I recently got a puppy instead of paying the bill but told DH that he could keep the insurance cheques of my terrier for vets bills I had paid and in the meantime he could take the money out of his savings account to replace when the cheques come. He didn't. The money is still in the account, he has already had one of the cheques and is planning to pay his credit card bill with it .
He asked me again to pay the bill, but then took my debit card to buy his nephew a £60 birthday present. I agreed it was okay, if instead of paying me back he paid £60 off the bill and I'd pay the other £30 then set up a dd so I don't fall behind again. He didn't pay it. Or give me back the £60.
He now wants me to use my savings to pay the Next bill. I don't want to, I will pay any future bills but I think he should pay this one as agreed.
The background is he lives in my house rent free and always has done. He rarely contributes to food. He gives me no housekeeping or no money for dd2, who is his child. He rarely buys her anything and all her clothes, food, nappies are bought by me.
His defence is I have paid nothing towards getting his house renovated I have no intentions of moving into this house.
He paid my mobile phone bill. True, but it is a joint account that I have paid the full bill for, for the last three months. He paid NTL, true but he did that because he wanted the internet connnecting again. I didn't ask him to pay it and was disputing the bill with them.
AIBU?
To think that I shouldn't have to pay this bill?
SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 26/03/2009 11:31
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