I suspect I probably am, but I feel like a vent.
My housemate and I co-own our house and have a joint account for bills, mortgage, etc. About every two months, she'll run out of money before payday, so will help herself to £100-200 out of the joint account to tide herself over for a few days before she gets paid (she has an IVA in place, so can't have an overdraft or credit). She always emails me to let me know she's done it (not to ask whether she can do it) and as far as I know, she always pays it back in (I haven't checked, but I trust her). I'm pretty sure it has no financial effect on me, as she does it mid-month and everything tends to go out at the end of the month, though she does say if we get charged because she's taken money out then she'll pay the penalty (not really the point, it will still contribute to a bad credit rating, and after years in the wilderness I'm working hard to improve mine). The money is technically half hers.
So, AIBU to get annoyed when she just helps herself to it or that she can't manage her finances so she's not completely broke at the end of the month (or just NOT GO OUT if she's broke at the end of the month)? Something about it just pisses me off.
She earns probably twice as much as me, if that's relevant.
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AIBU?
for being annoyed with my housemate for borrowing money out of our joint account?
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RainyWednesday · 17/04/2008 16:54
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