She just has him wrapped around her little finger. Right now he is putting her to bed (she wont let me do it ) i can hear him being ordered around and clattering about up there, fetching one toy or another, i just know she wont be laying down in her cot, most likely in our bed. I cant go up and be strict because he gets cross with me, i feel guilty because he is going to be stuck up there for AGES, but if i insist on putting her to bed it will end in a screaming tantrum.
He is working from home, he is behind on a job, DD wont leave him alone, i have to take her out just to stop her from standing at the back door shouting "dad dad dad dad". The thing is, i tell him to ignore her, but he jumps every time. Today i needed to go to the bank, he happened to come up just as we were going, she said she wanted him to come, she started to cry, I said, just go back to work - guess what he did....... So, she whined and dithered all the way to the town, DP was stressed because he is supposed to be working, im stressed because DP is supposed to be working. Managed to let her let him come home by bribing with the park, She was lovely at the park, we went to the beach, she was lovely - then screamed all the way home because it dawned on her that daddy had gone home People must have thought i was a cruel mother because in the end i just had to stop trying to reason with her and just walk along dragging her by her hand screaming "i want to duddle my daddy up, i want my daddy" FFS, she had only just left him an hour ago.
Why the hell can he not see that he is making things harder for us in the long run, ive tried to get this across to him but he just tells me to take another tablet (im on ADs). DD is 2.5, please tell me its a phase, not only can i not put up with the spoilt behaviour, but its actually really upsetting me that she only wants daddy and not me.
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To want to scream at DP that his indulgence of his little princess is making a rod for both of our backs...
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lucyellensmum · 14/04/2008 20:44
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