Not because I don't want to marry DP.
But I just don't want to do the whole wedding thing.
I never wanted a 'wedding', I would love to just nip down to the registery office and do it quietly. But DP really wants a big day.
So we compromised - its fairly low key as weddings go, but still in a church, 100 guests etc.
We've just started to organise it. And its already getting out of control - families 'giving advice' and telling us their expectations for the day, inviting people without asking us, or people assuming they are invited, me and DP arguing over things, me getting stressed.
I've really started to panic.
I don't want to do it. Its not just the stress from family etc. I don't want to spend the next 4 months organising it.
I've had quite an eventful time in last year (bought a house, moved in with DP, done work on house, had baby, got engaged, now back at work).
I feel I need a break from big events!! I want a break, to enjoy the summer, and spend time with DP and DD without stress, arguements and a wedding to plan.
Told DP all this, he sort of agrees, but I think he's also disappointed and worried about letting people (especially his family) down.
It's booked, we've told people but nothing has been paid for yet, and no invites sent out. What do you think? Am I being unreasonable to want to cancel / postpone it?
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PeppermintPatty · 26/03/2008 10:28
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