Ok, long drawn out pregnancy loss, i was having scans weekly, he did come to every other one. He is a great support when hes here etc...
Monday just gone i started to bleed, its got pretty heavy and painful. I spent most of the day in bed yesterday snuggled up to my 1yr old who also spent the day vomiting, my other ds was at a friends for the day so considering what Im going through I coped pretty well yesterday.
Now DP has been in his new job 5 weeks or so now. He gets really worried and anxious about asking for time off. He said he went to work yesterday and said to his friend "he was scared shitless i was gonna ask him to stay home with me" I didnt because I know how much he worries. When he got back from work at half 6 last night i was laying on the couch close to tears, through exhaustion and pain. i just felt phyiscally drained.
Today I have both boys home, ds is better today, stopped being sick and running round like his normal self. DS1 is playing up and has been since he opened his eyes. I am still in pain and bleeding and would appreciate DP being at home at least half a day today. But I dont wanna ask cos I know how worried he is about losing his job we have bills to pay, mortgage etc... He already has next monday and tues off because Im booked in for surgery. So Im a bit pissed off he was scared I was gonn ask him to stay home. But then that could be because of how Im feeling etc..
What do you think? Should he be here. Ive been through mc 6 times already so I know what to expect and how to deal with it and to be fair to him each time Ive mc'd hes been there, but now its cos hes only just started this job i think he is worried about asking for time off.
At the moment Im coping ok, in pain but pain killers are taking the edge off.
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Julezboo · 26/03/2008 10:17
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