to be a bit freaked out by neighbours text message??

[MamaMaiasaura]

Got text from neighbour saying they were watching me earlier changing baby and it was lovelyt,and that i am a wonderful mum.

Ds1 has told me he often sees her looking in his bedroom window as well.

[sophierosie]

That's a bit wierd, but maybe they just thought that the odd compliment would be nice.

Are they nosy neighbours?

[chipmonkey]

oooh, that is freaky! Better get some net curtains, Awen!

[Youcannotbeserious]

freaky, freaky, freaky....

Male or female neighbour? I'd be MORE weirded by a male neighbour sending me this but it's weird nonethe less......

I'd get some curtains...

[madamez]

SOunds like neighbour may be lonely/bored, but that isn't necessarily your problem ie some people will say, ahh, make friends with her because she's lonely, but I would advise caution. SHe might turn out to be a clingy nightmare. I'd ignore the text and try not to worry about it, it's harmless.

[bethoo]

has she children of her own?

[MamaMaiasaura]

got black out blinds so nets dont fit (weird slopey(sp) ceiling). She is a noisy neighbour. She has called me in the past to ask what i have had stuck on my kitchen wall.

SHe is a bit 'single white female'. She now wants a baby, and is trying to get her new bf to agree. Sensible guy has said they should wait.

[DoubleBluff]

Make sure she stays away from your rabbit hutch!

[tensmum]

ok, thats a nice thing to say but weird.

[bethoo]

tbh it seems innocent enough though it is also sad, she is obviously admiring you and in a way probably idolises you for what you have that she has not.

though be careful as she may become full on.

have you seen The Hand That Rocks the Cradle??

[MamaMaiasaura]

She is female with a dd a year younger than ds1. She isnt lonely but is extremely noisy. Didnt realise when first moved here but very quickly found out. She tends to covet (sp?) others lifes. Sad really. Still think is freaky tho. Would love to set a scene to send her tongue really wagging

[bethoo]

perhaps pretend to be having sex on the window sill wiht your butt pressed up against the window!!!

[WallOfSilence]

In what way is she noisy?

[MamaMaiasaura]

double - lol - how do you know we have a bunny??

Bethoo - tis true, and she often says how lucky i am. Feel like a bit of a bitch coming on here gossiping but nice to air how i feel. she is full on and i have distanced myself already. WHen dp came home from hosp after false alarm for ds2 she hijacked us on the way in the house wanting to see baby.

[bethoo]

i feel quite sorry for her, she is obviously desperate for another baby though i can see how it can be concerning for you.
i suffer from mega paranioa and i would have visions of her babysitting, then on arrival home discovering that she had packed her bags and gone! not meaning to freak you out. i think i suffer from paranioa! i keep telling my parents not to leave my baby unsupervised in shops or let random people hold him etc!

[MamaMaiasaura]

lol bethoo. She came over to see baby with her dd(7) and cried lots. Felt for her but again freaked out. Def not asking for babysitting lol.