Longish story but it gets there in the end, bear with me.
So MY Dp is perfect in every way as I've said a million times, we just click together and are very happy.
I'm 33 weeks pregnant (almost) and he thinks the world of me, our bump, and he's marrying me next year. Fandabbydozey.
However, his job contract has come to an end and to avoid moving far away he's been searching for a job. He could take one which will start in a few weeks but it's a low wage but a lot of hours and very close by so he's on call for when I go into labour and close for the baby.
Or he could take another which is about 45 minutes away, a much higher wage and probably quite a lot of hours. Sounds good doesn't it?
So he'd phoned up about it and had an appointment to go and see the woman about it today. However, past few days he's been a little off and wound up and stuff. I didn't know why, so last night in hormonal rage I shouted at him about it and suddenly he was back to old him. After he admitted something.
He said he didn't want to go for the high piad job.
I didn't get why, so I asked and he said he didn't like the woman he spoke to on the phone. I laughed it off and told him not to be silly.
Which was when he told me that his friend who works there (who had got him in the job in the first place) had told him that this woman makes it her business to sleep with all the men she employs, and that if he flirted a bit the job was his, guaranteed, but that she'd try to get into him once he worked there.
Also, she'd made her intentions very clear in the phone call with my DP and she'd finished the phone call with 'so call in on Wednesday so i can take a look at you' and people in the back ground started laughing. He said she was really obvious.
He's still going to go to the meeting. Which I wasn't bothered about because he'd not a cheat and can be trusted, and he doesn't want to let his friend down, so he wants to look like he's atleast trying.
I'm now starting to get a little pissed off and territorial.
Am I being unreasonable and what should I do? I've not told him I'm bothered, I've just laughed it off, so he seems a bit calmer about it but said if she acts like it when he's there, he's leaving.
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Solve this one for me MNs- some hussy trying to nick my fella.
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mumblesmummy · 19/03/2008 12:00
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