We fell out in september over something silly and I sent some texts to his mums phone. I offered to write and apologise (I was reallly sorry for dragging her into it) when he found out but he told me to leave it.
The other week he mooted my seing her again and possibly getting re-engaged (this was called off at Christmas since he refused to tell his parents cos I have a dd and he lied to them about her when we first met ). I duly presented myself at his flat last weekend but we didn't go around there since his mum was upset over something else. I decided to try and break the ice myself and wrote a letter apologising to her for what I'd done and asking for a fresh start. she got it today and rang him in a flap - she was going to a funeral which I wasn't aware of but I feel it's an overraeaction. It wasn't easy to write this letter or to post it - I carried it around for a week before I did.
upshot is I've been dumped and forbidden to contact him or her again. I just wanted to put things right - hell, be friends with her. I've been friends with ex bfs mums so why not her? i'm not really a pushy person even though it sounds like it.
I'm so unhappy now.
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brokenheartedvalentine · 14/02/2008 19:31
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