My first ever AIBR post - and I genuinely want to know if I am being unreasonable.
My 3 year old has always been an early waker. Recently he's improved slightly by sleeping till 6 instead of 5am. Now his younger brother has taken over the 5am wake up slot. Sigh.
I have tried for months and months to explain to the 3 year old, that if the bunny clock is still sleeping that means mommy is still sleeping and that he must stay in his room reading books or playing with toys until the clock wakes up.
But every bloody day he comes through to our room (which by this point invariably has younger brother in my bed because he's been up half the night yelling and has finally passed out) and the 3 year old either:
- starts yelling because he wants us all up OR
- gets into my bed and starts writhing around, scraping toenails down my back etc.
Ultimately he wakes up the little one which means game over, the day starts.
Am I being completely unrealistic trying to make him stay playing in his room for an extra 30 mins to an hour (depending on when he wakes up). Is he just to young to get it? And if so, when will he be able to understand this?! Because I wake up in a foul mood every morning now and it makes me ratty with him all day.
Three years of 5am starts is starting to wear a little thin.