My dad's a doctor and a bit of a hypochondriac. He lives in another country and only ever seems to contact me when there's bad news ("someone's got cancer", "someone's died"). I find talking to him when I'm not there in person very draining, as it's always so depressing! He seems to thrive on the drama. He never ever shares good news - I always find out through my mum or Facebook.
Today he texts me saying he won't be able to visit me "anytime soon" as his health is deteriorating (this isn't the first time he's said this, often accompanied with "I don't have very long left"). He does suffer from some ailments but I do often feel they're blown out of proportion when I speak to my mum about it.
Now I KNOW he wants me to say: "Oh no! What's wrong?" etc. and be very dismayed. But I know there's nothing terribly wrong. I often humour him anyway, but I was in a really foul mood and just said: "No problem! :) Hope you feel better soon!"
He's not replied since and I think he's upset because of how cavalier I was being.
Am I being unreasonable by not wanting any of the drama? I'm so sick of it.
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weelittlething · 02/09/2014 12:14
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