I've had a tumultuous relationship with my Dad over the years and at one time I would only see him once or twice a year. My older sister has two children and has no contact with him at all due to his behaviour before and during the divorce with our Mum. I've personally had to let go of things that make me angry so I can continue to have a relationship with him and although I love him because he's my Dad I don't know how much I actually like him.
Anyway... since our daughter was born my Dad has wanted to visit a lot and this has turned into every week where he will come and take her for a walk and spend time with her. Whilst I would never ever want to stop him seeing our daughter and it is nice to have a bit of time to myself I am starting to feel a bit swamped by him and feeling that a visit once a week is too much. I don't find being with him very easy and it's always a manic feeling visit. He wants to do a days childcare when I go back to work which is a kind offer but it would mean him staying over one night a week which just feels too much for me.
AIBU to start making the visits a little less frequent and to think that once a week is too much???
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salfordmate · 01/09/2014 17:30
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