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Birthday cards.

30 replies

Bruins · 31/07/2014 19:48

What is the point of posting a card on the actual birthday, to get there the day after, containing the hand written message "Have a really good day"?

AIBU to put said card into the recycling immediately?

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Pyjamaramadrama · 31/07/2014 19:51

They forgot to post it/got the dates mixed up?

They still thought about the birthday, put the card up, I keep birthday cards up for a week.

AnythingNotEverything · 31/07/2014 19:52

You sound really ungrateful.

Pinkrose1 · 31/07/2014 19:52

Bit harsh! They did at least remember and at least it wasn't an e card! Fwiw all my cards arrive about a week late I am total crap with cards

CrohnicallyDepressed · 31/07/2014 19:54

Maybe they posted it the day before but the postbox wasn't emptied till the day of the birthday? Some postboxes, especially in rural locations, only have a morning collection and they might not have realised.

But yeah, be grateful you got a card. I can count on one hand my last birthday's cards- and those were from people close enough to give them in person. Don't think I got even one in the post.

Bunbaker · 31/07/2014 19:54

"AIBU to put said card into the recycling immediately?"

Very, and ungrateful and not very nice. At least they remembered your birthday even if they got the date wrong by one day.

We keep cards up for a week here as well.

Amy106 · 31/07/2014 19:55

A birthday card in the mail would be a very welcome here, even if it was a day late.

callamia · 31/07/2014 19:55

Bloody hell. You're a tough friend.

If it was me who sent the late card, could you let me know and I'll never post one again.

MyCarHasBrokenDownAgain · 31/07/2014 20:15

Sheesh! I have friends who send cards MONTHS after the event. I love it, unexpected, and usually livens up a dull after work evening. I also appreciate them more as they're not vying for attention with the other five hundred I receive on the day!

CoffeeTea103 · 31/07/2014 20:17

You're so ungrateful and don't deserve cards.

HaroldLloyd · 31/07/2014 20:20

God what an awful friend. I would rip it into a million tiny pieces and post it right back.

Bowlersarm · 31/07/2014 20:23

Oh don't be so mean, OP.

Frontier · 31/07/2014 20:24

Yes, do. tell her you've done it as well, I guarantee you'll never have the same problem again.

mustbetimeforacreamtea · 31/07/2014 20:26

That is really harsh OP. Someone has put the time, effort and cost into sending you a card and this is your response? Would you prefer that they had just put a post on FB? I know which one would mean more to me.

NatashaBee · 31/07/2014 20:32

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Only1scoop · 31/07/2014 20:34

If it was from me ....sorry....I missed the post....hope it was a good one Wink

Itsfab · 31/07/2014 20:38

Maybe it was written well before the day and then they just forgot to post it in time Hmm.

EarthWindFire · 31/07/2014 20:38

How ungreatful can you get Shock

GiveTwoSheets · 31/07/2014 20:44

Yes you would be.

I've posted birthday card 1st class mid week and its taken 3days before.

Delphiniumsblue · 31/07/2014 22:33

Gosh, you don't give people much leeway! Are you generally such hard work as a friend?

Pipbin · 31/07/2014 23:10

With that attitude I'm amazed anyone remembers your birthday.

BackforGood · 31/07/2014 23:16

Of course YABU.
It's nice someone remembered, even if it didn't quite get there on time.
All sorts of reasons why it might not have, but still nice to get it.

LAlady · 01/08/2014 07:34

I posted a card to my friend's son (they live about 4 miles away) first class on a Thursday lunchtime. It arrived Monday morning.

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littlewhitebag · 01/08/2014 08:09

Do people really get worked up about this sort of thing? Why? The friend has bought a card, written it and posted it. There could be many reasons why it arrived a little late. What more do you want?

magpiegin · 01/08/2014 09:12

Bloody hell. At least they sent you a card. You're being very high maintintence!

teenagetantrums · 01/08/2014 09:18

I am crap at posting cards, they are often late, and even when I sent my dads three days before it got there a week later, the one I sent from the kids at the same arrived the next day. Dont be so ungrateful its lovely someone has thought about you.

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