Please be gentle with me, this is my first post on AIBU!
I've been quite heavily involved in a sports team/group for the past year or so, and it's been one of the best things I've ever done. It's a great bunch of people, good mix of ages, men and women etc and I genuinely like every single one of them, or at least I did until recently. About three months ago a new man joined the team, late 30's/early 40's at a guess, perfectly affable chap and keen to muck in and help, but for whatever reason I just can't stand him!
It's not in my nature to be like this with people I hardly know, so I tried to push my feelings to one side and make an effort with him, but I just cant because every time I see him I keep getting the feeling that he's trouble. He's invaded my personal space by standing too close to me a few times which I don't like anyway, but to be honest I knew I disliked him within minutes of meeting him and that's really, really unlike me!
I know it's not possible like everyone you meet, but I feel a bit guilty about it because he's not done anything to make me dislike him and it's also starting to affect my enjoyment of the team. I just don't want to be around him, at all and I've even considered leaving because of it, which I don't want to do because I genuinely love it and the other people!
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JellyDiamond · 31/07/2014 13:18
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