Hi everyone in writing this as I don't know where to turn anymore. I have a 2 month old beautiful son with my partner of 8 years. We have a house together, he pays for most things as I am on maternity. Recently I've been feeling really low as I feel my partner is bullying me. As I am the one who is in the relationship I always question myself as to whether I'm just being silly, I thought some third party perspective may put things more clear for me to make a decision. Here's an example of my partners behaviour; he is really nice when he wants to be but gets angry at the slightest thing, like once I was wrapping cheese in foil to put in the fridge, I ripped the foil with my hands instead of using the cardboard provided and he started saying 'your a fucking idiot' and got really angry with me. He has never hit me but things like this happen on a daily basis and he makes me feel really stupid. He often punches walls and doors which doesn't hurt me physically but is really intimidating! Just yesterday we stopped to get a sandwich and I went into the shop. They didn't have what he wanted so I ordered him something else I thought he might like. No! He got angry with me and said asked in a horrible tone 'do you not know me at all?!' He ranted on for ages threw the sandwich and left me in my car in tears. He never said sorry or acknowledged that it was not nice what he did, instead just acted normal that night and was nice to me and kept saying 'are you ok?' I was scared to bring it up because I knew he would have just made out it was my fault. Is this wrong or am I just being stupid? I keep thinking I just can't live on my own with a small baby... Should I leave him? He's great with the baby. His dad treats his mum like this and she just takes it. She laughs it off as if it's normal. His behaviour has got worse recently, I think it's because he thinks I need him, considering he pays for the car and house. These are just examples of what he is like, I'm constantly getting shouted at, talked down to and ridiculed ?? makes me really upset and he never feels guilty at all, just acts like 'I I wasn't so stupid he wouldn't have to be like this'
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LindyHemming ·
31/07/2014 06:31
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