I feel like I can't speak to my friends about this because the single ones seem to have the opposite problem but let me say I honestly find NONE of this flattering so please don't think this is in any way boastful.
I've been single for a year and decided to date again in January and started accepting offers, giving my number etc if I really liked and got on with someone. So far I've "dated" four guys and I'm honestly beginning to think there's something wrong with me. The first one I got so obsessive so early, ringing at least three times a day, loads of texts, referring to us as a couple after two dates etc. Really really full on and our third date he bloody cried when I said I didn't think it was working (actually wrote about that here at the time)
Second guy got the exact same way, he had bought a new car and started saying one day it could be our family car, talking about buying me a car of my own (I had just sold mine), wanted to introduce our kids, meet my DD etc.
Third guy ended up being married, told me on our second date (and he lives locally too!!), I walked out and told him never to contact me again but he harassed me with calls and texts, approached me in the butcher's and then left his wife thinking that would change my mind
Forth guy, I met him out on Saturday night and got on with him straight away! We made a date for the next day and had an amazing time but he rang a few times after he had dropped me home which annoyed me a bit as I had DD home and wanted to spend time with her so didn't answer and he sent me a message saying "is your ex there, is that why you're not answering the phone because you're spending the night with him?"
What the FUCK?! Why do they all turn out to be like this,just once I'd love the excitement of wondering if they're going to text etc! Not having to knock my phone off for a bit of peace! It's making me feel really isolated and making me miss my relationship with DDs dad just because he was normal!!
I've met them in all different places so it's not a case of picking up creeps in bars. They've all appeared totally normal and had jobs etc so it's not a case of way too much time on their hands either.
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Fanfeckintastic · 28/07/2014 16:38
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