DD's first birthday yesterday. Small party. Friend turned up with his two kids (5 and 7) and live in nanny/housekeeper (she does pretty much everything) saying he was leaving the kids with us, going to the shops for an hour (party was 2 hrs they arrived half an hour in - not a problem) and he was taking the nanny home so she could tidy up their place, then he'd be back when his wife arrived late (she was working late and told us in advance) to pick them up and go home.
Party was small, just three couples invited and no kids the age of his.
I thought he was joking at first and said, "Oh, so you're wanting to use us as a free babysitting service?!" in a jokey way, then realised that he was serious.
Backstory to avoid drip-feeding: we've never looked after their kids, although know them well and last year when we were in SERIOUS need - real emergency - and asked for help with my DS (then 1.5) this couple wouldn't help..and she is DS's godmother.
So, AIBU to think that he was being U? At the least, the nanny should have stayed to look after them if he couldn't?
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Leaving kids at birthday party
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BunnyPotter · 25/07/2014 10:08
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