Just venting really as I know loads of people will be in the same position but I'm so fed up tonight.
Just moved house to a new country and don't know anyone, I have the chance to start work practically next door to my house with a nursery on site for two young dc.
Have just worked out online that I will lose what little tax credits we get and get no help towards childcare as dh is on a good wage (just above national average not mega bucks) job I'm applying for is just above minimum wage so for my elder daughters funded hours I will be making a few pound a hour but for the other hours that she is not funded I have to pay full price for both dc so might actually end up paying to work.
Torn between thinking that at least I would be out the house (finding it really difficult being stuck with only dc's company-sorry dc I love you but by god are you hard work!) but also realising that even when elder dc goes to school next year I will still be working for buttons for another two years till younger dc goes to school.
Anyone have any words of advice on what you might do in this situation? It's look like it's a "career" that I'm better at keeping my hand in at, it's just a normal job that I love but surely it will be a bit soul destroying working for nothing (a bit like what I'm doing just now as a sahm )
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To be pissed of that I'll be worse of working!
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Chloe01mum · 23/07/2014 18:47
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